Valentine’s day is always considered as the special day to show our love to someone we love. Since Valentine’s day only happens once in a year, couples in love are waiting for this day as excited as waiting for Christmas eve.
There are many things we can do to show our love on Valentine’s day, but seems like chocolate and flower have become the most common thing people share on Valentine’s day to show their love. Mostly guys will give their beloved girls chocolate or flowers because girls really like those two things.
If you want something else for your Valentine’s day, you can try to do unusual Valentine’s day ritual. When people tend to go on a romantic dinner on Valentine’s day with their loved ones, you can try to do funner thing during the day which is contained with love. For example, you can ask your partner to go fishing. If you have the same hobbies with your partner like sport, you can ask them to watch football games with you. If you have the same favorite bands, you can also ask them to go watch a concert with you.
Be happy with your loved ones on Valentine’s day because it happens only once a year.
When you feel so alone just because you are single, you should know that there are also other people who are single but they can have a happier life than you. The secret is because they do better things than you do. When you’re just thinking about why you are single and forever alone, those high quality singles are thinking about ideas and macro problems in this world. We may think that Valentine’s day is a very special day, but actually it’s not that special if we know the right meaning of love.
Valentine’s day is associated with a day when we can show our love to the loved ones, but those who really love someone will not only show their love on Valentine’s day. When lots of people celebrate Valentine’s day with their partner and you don’t since you’re single, you may try to share the love to your friends and family. Visit your friends who are not into drama, so they won’t drag you into Valentine’s day stuff. Meet your parents and plan a holiday with them since you haven’t met them in a while. Life is too short to cry over why you’re single on a Valentine’s Day.
Loneliness is a matter of point of view, it doesn’t matter whether you have a spouse or not, if you can fill your life with happiness everyday you will never feel lonely. The best way to get rid of loneliness is by having a passion. You should be interested in some subject or career, so when there is no one left to fall back on, you will still have passion to reach so you will keep going on and moving forward. When you wake up everyday, the only thing you should think about is how you can reach your goal, not why you are single and you feel lonely.
You should know that lots of married people out there are feeling lonely because they are not married with the right person, or simply because they don’t want to work on their marriage’s happiness. When you are having a spouse, it doesn’t mean that you are having fun in life. Happiness in marriage takes sacrifice, two people should have understanding and they shouldn’t expect only one side to make them happy. If you want to be happy, make your spouse happy too. And again, marriage is not the key not to feel lonely in this life, but passion is.